"One of the greatest discoveries of this generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind."

Adewale Ademuyiwa

This is an extremely important principle. Because of this principle, people can break free from the habits of the past and create a new life for themselves. Because of this principle, people can learn to stop living in fear and pain.

So beware of the choices you make about how you think of yourself.

You can choose to think about yourself in a positive light or a negative light. If you can learn to think positively about yourself, you will find it easier to face life's challenges, and your life will be less stressful and emotionally challenging.

To help you towards this goal, here are 49 self-compassion scripts to help you develop a loving sense of yourself and your life.

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What Is self-doubt?

Self-doubt is an insidious mental virus that infects our minds and often makes you feel like the decisions or actions you take will go wrong or that you are no good at something.

It is an inner feeling of inadequacy, insecurity, and negative thoughts that can really hold you back. In some people, this feeling of self-doubt becomes a habit and can be very debilitating.

You may find yourself questioning everything you do, always expecting to fail. Your confidence and self-belief may also be undermined by the fear of failure.

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The relationship between loneliness and depression has been established, loneliness is also associated with other serious health conditions including obesity, cardiovascular disease, cancer, diabetes and cognitive decline. Loneliness has also been linked to increased mortality. A recent study in the UK reported that loneliness in older people is associated with a 50% increase in overall mortality.

While there are no one size fits all cures for loneliness, there are some healthy coping mechanisms.

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Stressful situations are unavoidable. Whether it’s an exam, a presentation, a meeting, physical health, mental health issues or something else entirely, we all deal with stress differently. While it is important to recognize that everyone handles stress differently, there are some general principles that apply to anyone who is stressed out.

The first step in dealing with stress is

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in this article, you're going to learn the No.1 reason why everyone struggling with negative emotions should become a master of balance...

Sadly, almost everybody gets this wrong!

You see when it comes to dealing with your emotions... One of the biggest keys is finding the right balance in the things you do.

Many people try to overcome their emotional problems by becoming obsessed with achieving some change. They try to achieve some goal. But this causes them to lose sight of what is truly important.

They forget that life is about the journey, not the destinations. And during the journey, you got to make a lot of turns.

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Lack of self-awareness is like a blind man trying to drive a car. He can steer with his front wheels, but he has no idea where he will end up.

If you don’t know where you are going, how can you possibly know when you have arrived? And without a clear picture of who you are and where you are going, it is impossible to have any real sense of direction.

In the world of personal development, self-awareness is king.

Without it, it is almost impossible to make any progress whatsoever.

You see, if you do not understand where you are coming from, it is difficult (if not impossible) to go anywhere else. You will be mired in a sea of confusion and frustration.

On the other hand, once you develop a strong sense of self-awareness, everything else in your life will fall into place. It is almost like discovering a secret map that shows you the hidden pathways that connect the dots of your life.

Sadly so many people never learn this. They never discover the value of self-awareness. And thus, they spend a lifetime struggling.

In this article, I’m going to reveal how to use self-awareness activities to help you learn to become aware of your true self.

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Have you ever felt an overwhelming sadness… which caused your entire body to ache?

Or felt a crushing sense of despair that kept you from being able to sleep? Or a constant dull throbbing in your head that made you sick to your stomach?

The truth... Unresolved emotional pain can cause physical problems?

Why?

Because when you are stressed or 'stuck' in an emotion, your body 'shuts down' your immune system. leading to increased pain

That's why In this article, I'm going to show you how to heal emotional trauma and improve your quality of life. Ready to dive in...

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A positive mental attitude affects every area of your life and can dramatically change your chances of success in all aspects of your life. It is a handy psychological tool that allows you to look at problems differently.

It is a mindset that helps you deal with obstacles as opportunities instead of threats. A positive mental attitude is a critical ingredient in the formula for success.

There is a big difference between having a "positive mental attitude" and just being positive. A positive mental attitude is developed over time through consistent and focused practice.

In this article, I'll explain what it takes to develop a positive mental attitude and give you specific tips on how to achieve it successfully.

Let's dig in...

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Over-responsibility may have resulted from being blamed for a lot of things whilst growing up. It could also come from an experience of growing up too quickly due to family members needing to rely a lot on you at a very early age. Because there was no one was there to take on the parental role for you when you were a child.

You had no choice but to the on the responsible hat and become dad and mum for everyone. Sometimes even for your parents too.

Bottom line: Over-responsibility pressurizes you to take on more than you are responsible for because it has been ingrained in you through years of habit. But now it has become the thief stealing the energy and joy away from your life.

How can you break free of the over-responsibility chains, when you can't stop believing at your core that you should take care of everyone and everything, and never let anyone or anything suffer. What do you do when the guilt becomes excessive and intense that it makes your body hurt so badly?

In this article, I'm going to reveal why “over-responsibility” becomes a trap for most people... and 12 simple tips to easily avoid this trap.

Before I do that though...

First a few questions.

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Self-doubt can be a compelling, crippling force in your life.  It limits what you believe you are capable of accomplishing.   It evokes paralyzing fear, triggers anxiety, encourages loss of hope, and results in depression!

As you grapple with self-doubt, it can easily lead to a vicious cycle that becomes difficult to escape.

Why must you care about the content in today's article?

You see, self-doubt is one of those things in life that will only get worse as time goes on if you do nothing about it. And the result is an unfulfilling life where you never realize your dreams. And you're left with lots of regrets.

So if you would like to stop my fear from holding you back and you would love to stop living in fear of making mistakes all your life, then I believe these five creatives ways to dealing with self-doubt would undoubtedly be worth your time.

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When life throws you a curveball, it's easy to feel like you're not going to get back up.

But, it's hard to find the right words and thoughts that will give you strength through emotional pain. At that very moment, you need them.

That's why it's so important to have a few quotes to fall back on easily--quotes that can help bring you back to the centre, reminding you of what's important, and send you on your way again.

Here are 101 quotes that inspire, motivate, soothe, and provide light to a dark time. Memorize them. Share them. Share them again.

Carry them in your heart.

And, when you need to, let them light your way out of a tough time.  

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1. I need to lose weight to control my stress

2. Stress is a bad thing

3. Stress can go away on its own

4. Stress is just a feeling

5. Stress comes from outside forces only

6. I'm not stressed because I'm still calm

7. Stressed people are generally pessimistic

8. If my stress goes away, I'll be happy

9. Less stress will make me healthier and happier

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Do you beat yourself up for this too?

You've realized that the central problem keeping you stuck in your depression and anxiety is your lifestyle and bad habits.

For example, you know that an essential habit to good mental health is positive thinking, but no matter how hard you try, you can't stop criticizing yourself; you can't let go of the past, and you keep expecting the worst all the time.

How can you consistently stop your negative emotional habits when they always seem so impossible to stop?

Would you like to know how?

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"I'm tired of feeling so stressed out..."

"I can't eat properly, sleep well or concentrate on anything....  It's like my body is literally breaking down."

Sound familiar?

Often it can feel like nothing you do to cope with stress works.

Is this because it is impossible to stop everything from overwhelming you?

Or could it be that you are missing out on some vital truth that could equip you with the knowledge to cope better?

In today's article, I reveal 7 common mistakes that turn your brain into a STRESS FACTORY and 7 Lifestyle changes you can make to avoid these mistakes....

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Has deep thinking become your core coping strategy?
Yes, It’s true…

Deep thinking can give you a broader perspective of life’s experiences and prepares you for things which others might not see coming. Equipping you with responses so you don’t get caught out so much in discussions.

It can be great fun exploring deep and esoteric topics.

But, is deep thinking bringing any negatives into your life?

Read the article to see what you can do to avoid this trap

What's more important? A diagnosis or a practical solution?

In today's article I’ll reveal 4 mental health diagnosis traps that will cause you to Sacrifice the rest of your life and force you to live a mentally ill lifestyle.

What that means is that these traps destroy your emotional strength to cope and cause you to sacrifice your jobs, sacrifice your relationships, sacrifice your ambitions and sacrifice your goals in order to survive and get through life.

But to help you prevent that from happening to you… At the end of the video, I’ll be revealing the 4 essential steps you must take in order to avoid these mental health diagnosis traps.

Struggling to sleep... But don't want to get addicted to nasty sleeping tablets?

Here are 11 weird tricks to fall asleep fast and naturally when everything else you've tried has failed.

Why 11 you might wonder?

You see over the last 20 years working in mental health, I've seen the pattern where one strategy that works perfectly wonderfully for one person will completely destroy another person's sleep experience.

So, my suggestion would be to work through this list and choose any of the strategies that work for you. You might find that you are okay with just one... Or you may need to combine two or three to get the perfect mix for your specific situation.

With that said, let's dive in.

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Aren’t you tired of all the commonplace emotional advice on the web?

You’re searching to learn how to keep yourself from going down under because of how you feel

Yet all you get is shallow advice like...

Take a walk... Go see a professional... Make sure you don't get hooked on anxiety meds... just go outside and breathe fresh air...

Sure, if you are just looking for simple advice that slap a plaster on your emotional wound.

Then these short-term advises would be sufficient.

But if you are actually looking to make your life better for the long term. And you’d like to help yourself break free from the burden of negative emotions…

Then you need tangible step by step advice that can uproot the foundations of your emotional problems.

So, if you are ready to put in the necessary work to achieve a more peaceful life, then this article is for you.

Ready?

Let’s dive in…

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If you constantly hold yourself to a high standard and just hone in on the negative aspects of yourself all the time...

Here's how you overcome your fear of not being good enough:  (A simple 3-step system to gain a deep lasting sense of self-worth)

Click the link to watch the video