How to Survive Toxic Family Members Who Damage Your Health... Discover How To Protect Yourself From Them Forever!
Turn your “toxic family member” into your biggest cheer leader... Get cooperation and support from them 100% of the time!
Survive almost any type of relationship problem.
Not only will you be able to keep the relationship... you will also be able to strengthen it immensely. Because you will have the skills and the know-how to deal with problems quickly and efficiently.
Get control of your emotions and no matter what anyone does or says…
YOU will always remain steady and calm! You will gain the ability to let nothing and no one get to you. So they won’t be able to turn your life upside down anymore! You’ll be able to live life to the fullest!
Turn off the "power-up" of toxic people in your life! Use simple...
Proven techniques and strategies to recognize their destructive energy and turn it off in an instant before it causes havoc. You'll be amazed at how quickly you can accomplish this.
You will be able to handle the insane, irrational and unfair actions of other people…
Without allowing them to get to you. In fact, you will be able to respond to their attacks with an inner calmness that lets them know… they have gone too far. And that it’s time to back off and stop the insanity.
Do You Want Freedom From The Tyrants In Your Home? But Don't Know How To Get It
It's infuriating...You know your family members are dysfunctional, controlling, unreasonable and often abusive.
They make you feel guilty just for existing.
They criticize everything you do and don’t let you off the hook when it comes to making any mistakes. They yell and scream and blame you for their own shortcomings. They demand total allegiance yet offer nothing in return.
Your relationships with them are strained to the breaking point and often worse.
You try to avoid them as much as possible because they poison your life. You feel like an outsider even though you may live in the same house.
You wonder if they really love you or if they just hate you for some reason you can’t understand. They drag you down and prevent you from ever being happy.
What scares you most is that...
You have no control over your life. Your relatives control every aspect of your existence.
If they find out you are trying to improve yourself, they will destroy you. If you make an attempt at a normal life, they will thwart your efforts.
They will never allow you to reach your goals, dreams or satisfy your desires.
You will be chained to a dysfunctional existence forever. Your efforts to change will only make things worse since they will blame you for their own failures and lack of progress.
You will feel trapped in a nightmare from which there is no escape. No matter how hard you try, no matter how much money you make, no matter how good you look, you will always be miserable.
But What if You Could...
Discover exactly what you must do to change this situation... Without them even realizing it!
You will learn why your family members are the way they are and understand the hidden forces that control them.
You will learn how to restore relationships with your family members and gain back the love and respect they have for you. You will become stronger, healthier and wiser than you ever thought possible.
Then one day...
Your difficult family members will actually begin to see you as a valuable member of the family. Your parents accept and even appreciate all the hard work you do to provide for them.
Your siblings see you as an important part of their lives. Your spouse or partner shows you unconditional love and approval.
You are able to live your life free from the chains which held you back before. You have all the support you need to thrive and achieve your goals and dreams. Your life is finally in balance and you can finally let go of all your burdens and worries.
You are at peace with the world and finally able to enjoy the blessings life has to offer.
If you can relate to all of this, You are not alone!
I have been there too...
FROM MONSTER WIFE TO HEAVENLY SAINT - HOW ONE MAN CHANGED HIS WIFE'S LIFE
There I was...
A mental health professional who was barely managing to survive the hellhole that is most often referred to as “home life”. I was dealing with an emotionally and verbally abusive wife.
I said she was making my life hell... But she said I was the sole cause of the problem...
I learned how to tune all the abuse out.
That was my only survival mechanism. But doing this also made me put on a lot of weight until I became SUICIDAL!
Then, as if by chance, I read a book by an ex FBI Agent who is called Chris Vauss.
The book taught me how to negotiate with my wife in a way that got her to cooperate with me and stop being so angry and abusive towards me.
My plan was to learn as much as I could from the book and combine that with what i already know about emotional wellness. This way I could learn to not just survive but also thrive in spite of toxic influences in my life...
And so I could help other people do the same.
After that, I developed a program that has been used all over the world by people just like you and me who are sickened by the idea of being trapped in dysfunctional family relationships.
We call it “The Difficult Family Member (DFM) Neutralizer Program”.
With this program you can learn how to stop allowing toxic people and situations to drain your energy and start using your feelings as fuel for creativity... so you can achieve happiness, warmth and support in every area of your life!
3 Secrets For Neutralizing Poisonous Families
Secret 1. Beware of their " Tantrum Wall"
Being hurt... Feeling critical and retaliating doesn't solve anything… it just makes your life worse.
Yes, you read that right.
There's a quote I like that goes something like this: "He who is devoid of criticism has no friends." This is dead on target when it comes to dealing with toxic people in your life.
The key to dealing with toxic people is not to get sucked into an emotional black hole of hurt they generate... but rather… to detach yourself from their negative energy whilst observing all their moves keenly.
You don't need to sacrifice your sanity by allowing them to bring you down, You just need to learn how to let their nastiness bounce off you whilst you gather all the information you will later use to disarm them.
Now that doesn't mean that you make yourself a doormat!
No joke... I had a friend who continually took the abuse of her unfaithful husband and his mistress, and she simply allowed it to push her to the edge.
Instead, you should do what I did to understand what drove my difficult family member's toxic behaviour. This gave me insights into so many things that gave me a better fighting chance in the negative dynamics of our relationship.
You might be able to imagine people who allow toxic family members to make them miserable.
Now compare that with someone who stays strong whilst gathering information from their toxic family members.
See how fast they are able to bounce back?
What's even better is they also now know exactly how to take charge of the situation and diffuse the animosity in the air with ease.
How? Because it's not about how much abuse you take...
...It's about keeping your emotional armour intact which helps keep your sanity intact in the battle.
Secret 2: Stay Away From Extreme Reactions
Ignore or fight them, And you Make Your Life 10 Times Worse.
THIS PART IS KEY.
Most families have some members that are toxic to one degree or another. However, if you believe all you need to do is ignore or fight these toxic buffoons… you will be setting yourself up for failure.
Why?
Because most toxic people tend to thrive off people either ignoring them or fighting them.
Hence, the best (and sometimes, the only) way to deal with toxic family members effectively… is to do something in between fighting them and ignoring them… Doing this disarms your toxic family member.
Why? Because most toxic people know that you'll to either fight them or ignore them with the best result is getting whatever they are after from you…
These are the three reactions they have grown to expect all their lives and they have tons of well-practiced for what attack measures they can employ.
That's why your reaction has to be something in-between fighting and ignoring them...
How do you do this?
You practice specially well-engineered responses in your head until they become second nature.
I call this Your Personal Mental Gym. And it's a key ingredient.
Why is this Key?
Your toxic family member has tons of years of practice at manipulating situations and there is no way you can succeed at managing their attacks effectively without tons of practice yourself.
But the problem is...
What chance do you get to practice your reactions to your difficult family member? You can't just instigate an attack from them just to get practice over and over.
That is why you have to use a well-developed set of mental exercises to build up the amount of practice your brain requires to be able to sail past toxic attacks from your difficult family member.
Look at what these two previous graduate had to say
Secrete 3. Negotiate like the FBI.
One of the biggest scams perpetuated by many "do-nothing" relatives is that "you should just let bygones be bygones."
And when you press them for more, they'll say something like,
"You just have to LET IT GO. Just forgive and forget"
WHAT UTTER RUBBISH!
Look...
I am not advocating that you should hold a grudge for the rest of your life...
But If someone wronged you (even if it was years ago), you got to have a safety strategy for managing that person in future. Not doing this is like handing your life over on a platter to vicious bloodthirsty wolves.
The truth is, you need a system of interaction with the toxic person which will allow you to engage with him or her in a safe way. In a way that would not allow their poison to keep affecting your life in any negative way.
Think about it…
When you're dealing with someone who has no respect for you... And you keep forgiving the person, what do they do?
I'm not a psychic, but I'll take a stab at this…
They take advantage of you in some way... Again... And again. You might write this off as, "Oh, it was just an honest mistake. But...What next...You're that person's victim for life.
That's not a good thing at all!
And that's when you decide to stop forgiving them. And you vow not to give them the time of day again. But later on... You forgive and forget again and try to give this person another chance. Is that conducive to a happy life?
Is this how you attract respect, love, and care from the toxic people in your life?
No…All it gets you is a fast-track to your own little hell.
But again, it doesn't have to be this way…
How to negotiate like the FBI... And Break Down Their Toxic Barriers... Win Them Over to Your Side Without Them Realizing it.
You see, most people think about negotiating the wrong way.
Seriously. I've asked people, and they almost always say, "I'll just tell them the real reason I want them to listen"
*Face palm*That's WAY TOO GRANULOUS.
You see, people have this obsession with things like "telling the truth," and "being straightforward."
These are all tactical stuff, but it has NOTHING to do with getting your needs met or getting the respect you deserve. Instead, most of these Ideas are "gimmicks," and they're not TRUE way to getting a toxic person to listen."
But Adewale, negotiating with my difficult family was hard! "And you're right…
…negotiating with toxic family members can be TOUGH.
However, when you know what you're doing, it gets much easier.
Trust me, I know.
For the first few years, I found negotiating with my toxic family members excruciating.
Every attempt I made felt like it fell on deaf ears because I'd spend time trying to get my needs met… Trying to get them to understand.…and A WAR would break out in the house!
But in time, after a whole lot of failure and practice, I began to learn the ins and outs of negotiating with my family.
And now, years later, I've diligently distilled everything I know into A 3 step strategy that you can use to turn your Toxic Family Member into a cooperative puppy.
You'll learn more about how I used these strategies to negotiate with my family in Module 3 of The
Negotiator's Survival Manual.
Now, I have a question for you:
Do you want to waste a year suffering under the abusive hammer of your inconsiderate mother, husband, dad or sibling?
Or would you LOVE to find yourself thriving in a family where you are respected and appreciated?
Where everyone is invested in building positive and healthy relationships. Where you can grow and thrive?
In other words, do you want to flounder around or do you want a family that inspires YOU to live a fulfilling life?
If you said the former, stop reading.
Still here? Great…
Give Me Six Weeks And You'll see how to stop being controlled by a tyrannical, dysfunctional family… And actually start to enjoy your life again.
INTRODUCING THE
DFM NEUTRALIZER
PROGRAM
Module 1
Prevent lifelong damage ( the EXACT strategies I used to deal with difficult family members).
Leave challenging relationship experiences behind. When you're done with this module, you'll know exactly how to deal with difficult family members.
While many of these strategies are counter-intuitive, you'll see that I've used them time and time again.
These strategies have kept me from making a lot of mistakes and will save you from making them as well.
You'll learn...
- How to stop being controlled by your past…
This will give you the ability to make positive changes in your life immediately… even in the face of adversity. - The breakthrough formula for protecting yourself...
While interacting with your difficult family member. Become immune to all types of emotional blackmail... including guilt, shame and the need to "fix" or "repair" other people. - The truth about enabling family members –
And how to avoid it. (You'll learn how to create boundaries around them). - How to undo the mental and emotional damage...
Caused by critical or overly controlling parents, siblings or other family members. You'll learn how to instantly remove the “tape” of negative thinking which keeps you trapped in an unhealthy relationship
Value = £ 450
Still on the fence?
You are definitely NOT alone.
Many people who are interested in changing their lives are “frozen” by the idea of spending money. But the truth is that the inability to cope with toxic family members is costing you a great deal already,
And the cost of therapy is probably less than the emotional damage you are suffering now.
Read what one of our graduates said about the value she gained from the program..
Module 2
A Fool-Proof strategy to avoid repeat abuse from your DFM
Stop living in fear. Re-educate your brain and body so that no one – not even your most difficult family member - can defeat you.
When you're done with this module, you'll know exactly what to do if your Difficult family member starts abusing you again. (This is the exact “mental and emotional armour” I use on my Difficult family member.)
You'll learn...
- How to stop being a physical and emotional “human punching bag” forever.
Immediately recognize the warning signs of an impending abusive episode... and defuse any type of abusive situation before it becomes serious. (This includes emotional, mental and physical abuse.) - The hidden patterns of thought and feeling which make your Difficult family member tick…
And allows you to finally understand them on a cellular level. This enables you to stop struggling with them… and finally, start dealing with them in a meaningful way. - How you train your abuser to stop abusing.
Learn the “Eagle Eye” tactics to help you recognize if your Toxic family member is about to try to “turn the tables” on you. Instantly recognize when this is happening... and put the brakes on it before it is too late! - How to stop giving your power away...
Instantly remove the “tape” of negative thinking which keeps you trapped under other people's control.
Value = £ 559
Now you may be thinking...
I don't think my family problem can be fixed. Why should I waste time trying?
The way you think is important when it comes to dealing with toxic people.
The truth is that every problem has a solution if you are willing to put in the work. Your family problems are no different.
But, what if you could spend 6 weeks with a non-judgmental group of people who would support and encourage you no matter how dysfunctional your family of origin is?
What if you could get expert advice on handling difficult people, as well as strategies for dealing with any other family issues that may be holding you back?
How much money and time would you save by not having to attempt to fix a problem that is hurting you so much that you have virtually given up?
Module 3
How to overcome exploitable emotions [ caused by your DFM]
Achieve inner peace and contentment. Overcome exploitable emotions so you can deal with toxic people with ease... and without getting emotionally manipulated yourself.
The exact process you must go through to create a new neural pathway in your brain.
This allows you to instantly remove the programming which created anxiety and depression in the first place.
You'll learn...
- The Blacksmith concept & The torture chamber concept
The single most important factor which determines if you'll be stuck in a situation where someone is “playing” with your emotions... or destroying your peace of mind and happiness. - The 3 powerful “disconnect” techniques which will help you regain control of your emotions when they start to run away with you.
Create distance between you and the Difficult person... even if they are your spouse, your children, your parent, your sibling or your best friend. This allows you to maintain your sanity and stay true to yourself. - How to practice “self-nurturing” instead of self-pity.
This is the exact opposite of what you would usually expect from the words “self-compassion.” You'll gain the inner strength you need to become more resilient, and not get sucked into the vortex of other people's problems. - How to “unlearn” old thought patterns which prevent you from being happy.
Stop living in the “emotional world” of negative thinking. You don't have to think about anything negative ever again) - The secret mental instructions for removing anxiety and fear from your body...
(An easy-to-follow guide which takes the mystery out of de-stressing… and lets you quickly experience deep inner peace).
Value = £ 679
Module 4
Mental strengthening skills for toxic moments, aggression & verbal onslaughts from your DFM.
Prevent burnout and promote peak performance.
When you're done with this module, you'll know exactly how to deal with toxic people… without getting sucked into their drama.
These strategies have allowed me to keep my integrity, remain true to myself, and continue to grow as a person and a leader. And I bet they will work for you too.
You'll discover...
- How to instantly shift the energy in a room from “toxic” to “progressive”.
This is a difficult but vital skill to master. You can use it to transform even the most difficult situations into ones where everyone wins! - How to use “Emotional Anchors” to stop the vicious emotional roller coaster.
You'll be able to create a “calming anchor” in the centre of chaos... and remain stable and centred in an otherwise unstable world. - How to instantly gain control of any toxic situation...
No matter how difficult the person is or how difficult the situation seems. This allows you to regain your power and stay true to yourself. - The exact opposite of “playing the victim” - Learn how to practice “mastery” instead
You'll gain the inner strength you need to start standing up for yourself… and achieving all the success you deserve! - How to avoid the confrontation trap -
Why many people never confront difficult family members at all… and what happens as a result. Discover how to make confrontations easier for yourself when you do decide to talk with your Difficult family member.
Value =£679
At this point, you may be thinking...
I know what's wrong with my family—I don't need this program to help me with this...
If you know what the problem is with your family, you should try to deal with it on its own. However, if you are not making any headway, or if your efforts seem to be backfiring on you, then you may need some outside assistance.
This program will not only help you with your immediate problem, but it will help you to have a healthier relationship with your whole family.
You will discover other coping strategies that you never knew about, and you will be surprised at how much better your relationships will be with your loved ones after you complete this program.
Module 5
Master the FBI negotiation trick:
Reveals the exact steps you must take to stop the dysfunctional cycle from continuing to perpetuate itself in your family. Once you fully understand these steps, you'll be able to prevent problems from occurring in the future... and you'll create a happier life for yourself and everyone else involved.
You'll learn:
- The exact words you need to say to your Difficult family member to make him or her more cooperative…
How to handle difficult family members in a way that makes it less likely you (or they) will ever abuse each other again. (Even in cases of mental illness). This strategy allows you to get what you want in a way that nobody would ever suspect. - Employ Tactical Empathy: The exact “dialogue technique” to use (even in the most hostile interactions.)
Which reduces resistance, and brings about immediate change. People will never guess the amazing influence this has on them. - Calibrated Questions.
The fastest way to get someone who is oblivious to your feelings to start paying attention to you. This makes your abuser treat you like your feelings matter too.
Value = £ 540
Now perhaps you're thinking...
I can't afford this right now.
What is the value of your life?
How much money have you wasted because of fear? How many hours per day are in a 6-week program to transform your life, you would end up spending less than 20 hours doing the entire program, yet the results of this program could change your life forever.
It is never too late to invest in your future, and this 6-week challenge will change your life. You will gain the skills and knowledge you need to stop putting your life on hold, and to start living the life you want.
You will learn how to overcome the mental and emotional blocks that are preventing you from moving forward.
You will discover new ways to cope with everyday stressors that will improve your health and increase your energy.
If you are a serious person who wants to make a real difference in your life, this is the best deal on the web. What you get is an entire course designed to help you overcome a huge mental and emotional block.
And what you get is everything you need to make a real and lasting change in your life.
That's including a 90-day money-back guarantee.
Module 6
Essential tools for preventing yourself from slipping back into bad relationship problems
Relapse prevention: The exact formula I use to help my clients who have suffered from mild to severe forms of emotional abuse (including being yelled at, put down, isolated, or given the silent treatment) fully recover their health and happiness.
This includes regaining their self-esteem and the ability to trust themselves again.
You'll learn...
- Why most people who experience abuse “stay in the negative situation”
And become addicted to the “abuser”... instead of “breaking free emotionally” and recovering. This reveals the single most important factor which determines if you'll be stuck in a situation where someone is “playing” with your emotions... or destroying your peace of mind and happiness. - How to stop the “ticking time bomb” inside your head…
Achieve peace with yourself and move on with your life. No matter how horrible the situation you may be in, you will always have a future. Even if your situation seems hopeless... This helps you develop the ability to create positive change in your life... no matter how difficult the external circumstances may be. - Steps to create an “Emergency Survival Kit” for yourself
Which will give you the skills and tools you need to survive and recover when life gets tough. Proven methods to handle grief, depression, stress, anger management, co-dependency, self-esteem issues, fear, panic attacks, obsessive thoughts... - The single most important thing you must do to heal after being abused
(Until you do this, you will never be free from the pain caused by the abuse). You see, your body knows exactly what it needs to heal itself. You can only hinder your own recovery by ignoring or fighting against your body's natural urges.
Value = £ 476
But I am too busy, I don't have time to do this right now
You are never too busy to deal with an immediate threat to your well-being, especially if it is someone close to you.
If you are worried about dealing with a family member who has emotional and/or physical abuse in the past or is currently abusing you or someone else, this 6-week challenge is for you.
You can do this in your spare time, it will only take about 10-minutes per day. And It will give you skills and knowledge that can be used for the rest of your life to deal with difficult people.
Warning: The Most Expensive Advice Is the Advice You Don’t Take
You might be thinking, “Well, I’m just getting started.
Maybe I’ll potter around by myself for a while, see if I can figure out how to cope. Then I’ll come back to this later. “
But that’s a mistake. Here’s why:
It’ll take you ten times as long. You’ll run into a simple problem, and you’ll waste days or even weeks trying to figure it out. For example, you might choose the wrong strength to focus on, which will have a nasty impact on your life. Potentially causing more pain and failure.
Bringing you back to where you started. My DFM Neutralizer Program can save you from some of that.
Not all of it – learning anything is still going to be a struggle – but what if I save you a few years of frustration? What would that be worth to you?
And here’s the real question:
If you’re not willing to commit in order to avoid a life of pain and mistakes that dump you in negative cycles of self-doubt and overwhelm, then honestly this is not for you. And we would simply waste each other’s time. I don’t say that to be mean. It’s just the honest truth.
Think about it this way:
You were willing to spend four years in college, right? Maybe you finished, maybe you didn’t, but the idea of dedicating four years of your life and tens or even hundreds of thousands of pounds to school didn’t seem ridiculous.So why should this be any different?
Learning to cope with that Nasty family member would be the best education you can ever have, and it requires as much study and honestly, it should be massively expensive to.Can I promise you’ll become a genius at surviving your toxic family member? No. The only person that can make that promise is YOU.
You have to decide how serious you are. You’re either in this to win, or you’re not. So, what’s it going to be? You clearly have nothing to lose. And that’s why you should click the button below to get started today.
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