We live in a time of great knowledge. Where new scientific findings are opening up opportunities.
Many doors in mental health that were previously closed are now bursting open due to the miracle of neuroscience.
There is one particular scientific discovery everyone in the field of neuroscience is raving about right now.
This discovery revealed a "MENTAL TRAP" that causes your brain to work against you.
But the good news?
Once you understand how the mental trap works...
You can use this knowledge to...
Armed with the adequate knowledge of the internal workings of the mental trap.
What's my point?
And that's why you need to read this article to the end, because I'm going to reveal the practical step by step process to overcome your mental trap. So that It can work in your favor and not against you.
Here's a vivid example of how the mental trap can imprison you in your own mind.
From March 2000 till August 2001, I worked on a medium secure unit for ladies diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
Sadly, many of these ladies had been emotionally and sexually abused by friends, parents and family members. Violated by the very same people who were supposed to protect them, love them and be there for them.
As a direct result...
Kindness, care, love, hugs and kisses became alien to these ladies.
Human gestures that were supposed to give them a sense of warmth and safeness, triggered a sense of threat, fear and dread.
And the result?
They PROTECTED themselves so viciously till they could no longer enjoy connecting with people.
Love became a trigger to go numb, shut down, clam up and self-isolate. Until they had nothing left to live for.
Kind actions from others trapped them in a negative mindset. Until they had to be placed on suicide watch daily.
So strangely, self-protection, which is supposed to be a good thing, led to a life of pain, self-mutilation, anxiety and depression for these ladies.
But, here's the deal...
A similar thing's happening to you.
Permit me to get real with you for a second...
Because, just like the experience of the ladies I described above, you too have fallen for a similar trap.
Because of the life difficulties you’ve been through...
You’ve become a genius at spotting potential problems and risks in your life.
And without knowing it...
You’ve built up protective systems that are now your default reactions to the situations that threaten you.
Sadly, these same protective systems crank up your negative emotions which locks you right in the Jaws of your mental trap.
And the outcome?
Anxiety hits you again and again!
Depression smacks you down again and again!
And this keeps dragging you back to square one.
How do I know this?
Today, most people would look at me and think…
“What a big, strong, confident, man.”
What many don’t realize though, is that I used to feel shamefully anxious around people.
You see, I grew up extremely shy. I was always that child in the party who hid away in the corner, scared to talk to anyone whilst everybody else was having fun. Scared to talk for fear of stammering and making a fool of myself.
Sadly, all my attempts to break out of my shyness failed because...
I got burnt over and over each time I tried to mingle.
The few people I braved myself to open up to, let me down quite painfully.
I recall how in boarding school, I would sacrifice all my food and provisions to help friends. My parents brought me up to give to anyone in need. But then this meant I soon gave all my food away. And when it came their turn, these friends pretended they didn’t know me.
I also recall, friends who I trusted with my life,spreading rumors behind my back and turning people against me.
Back then, I was badly naive. So, this was a rude awakening that people can be mean, hurtful, spiteful and selfish. People you treat nicely, they just treat you badly.
And this made me think…
“I don’t want people to control my feelings… I don’t want people to control my life.”
And as such, I learnt to do things and cope with life by myself.
Now, you’d have thought…
Self-sufficiency is great!
You don’t want people to have power over you because they know you need them.
My self-sufficiency dumped me in 5 long painful years of failure after failure.
You see, before leaving Nigeria for England. I was a very good student. In fact, I was an A student in my first year of university.
The following year, I migrated to England to further my studies, and to my surprise I started to fail at my assessments and exams.
I had to re-sit almost every essay and exam I took. And just managed to scrape through. This was even more surprising because in class whenever I answered questions, the teachers could tell I knew what I was talking about. In fact, I would often give suggestions and advice to people who would go on to get A's in their papers.
So, I couldn’t understand why I was failing so consistently.
But because of my self-sufficiency, I failed to confide in anyone. Instead, I listened to the rumors I heard about English teachers who marked African students badly.
So, I thought...
"Well, my full name is ADEWALE ADELEKE ADEMUYIWA," you can't get a name more African than that. This must be why I am failing so badly."
Sadly, this problem of failure followed me to every institution I went.
Then five years later, one lecturer told me that if I didn’t pull my socks up, I was never going to get a degree.
So I decided to let go of my beliefs and dig deeper to find out why I had become serially unsuccessful.
And this was when I had my epiphany.
I discovered that the reason I was failing was embarrassingly simple.
The reason I was failing most of my exams and essays was...
I was not writing my work using the academic process and language.
That was why when I was in class, The teachers and other students could tell that I knew what I was saying. I could make my debates clearly. But when I wrote them down, I was not writing in proper academic format.
Now armed with this understanding, I sought advice and got the right books to help me understand the academic process.
And as a result, my grades began to improve.
But this took 5 long years of pain.
Now you might be wondering why no one told me that structuring my work academically was my problem. It was plainly simple enough, wasn't it?
But you see, I didn't give anyone a chance to help me. I kept my failures to myself. I was too embarrassed to let anyone know I was not good enough. I was trying to resolve the problem on my own like I always did.
This was how, my self-sufficiency. a trait I developed to protect myself from mean and selfish people promoted my own mental trap.
It brought me years of misery. It impacted heavily on my self-esteem. It almost ruined the direction of my life.
And the truth...
And In fact, if you're struggling to cope emotionally, you can guarantee that there's a similar negative loop hijacking your recovery.
So, here's how you can....
You see, over the last 20 years working in different mental health services, I discovered that people fail to return to their fully functional self after their breakdown because of three surprisingly common reasons.
Reason 1: You get stuck in "recovery mode."
Reason 2: You get stuck in "survival mode."
Reason 3: Eventually, survival mode sucks the life out of you and either breaks you down or smacks you back into recovery mode again.
Now Here's the BIG KEY to full recovery!
Both the recovery mode and the survival mode are intertwined in a complicated maze created by your mental trap.
When you are recovering from a meltdown, it is easy to get stuck in these weird loops that make it difficult for you to recover.
You know how it feels to be unwell. And you fear losing control over yourself again.
Your brain is aware that you can get there.
And at this stage, your brain isn't certain that you've got the tools to prevent yourself going downhill again. So it's going to naturally feel vulnerable if it sees any signs or symptoms that look like a breakdown.
And this creates a worry that follows you around. You worry that you're now broken. And that something might get you back to feeling depressed suicidal and anxious again.
That's why you're get caught in a loop of constant self doubt.
That's why you wake up every morning testing yourself to see if the broken feelings are still there.
Sadly, this very act of checking if your mental health problems are still there triggers your anxiety, your depression and your stress.
This is your MENTAL TRAP in full blown action.
Your well intended efforts to protect yourself from mental health problems becomes the chain that locks in more mental health problems.
This is one of the many ways in which your mental trap locks you in recovery mode. And I have seen people who've been locked in recovery mode like this for 75 plus years.
How do you prevent this from happening to you?
I will get to that in a bit...
First I would like to reveal how the mental trap works against you in the survival mode
When you get well enough to get back into life and employment, you'll want your mental health woes to be behind you.
And because you don't want to be dragged back down again...
Sadly, as you do all of this, you'll fail to take the most important aspect of recovery into consideration.
You'll totally ignore accounting for your mental trap.
Not because you are not intelligent, but because you don't even realize it exists.
And the result...
You'll feel like your life is hanging by a thin thread, held together by faith, hope, strength of character, sheer guts and determination.
You'll carry on living in this mode until it bleeds out all your hope and sucks you dry of motivation.
And that's how you spend your whole existence not living but just surviving.
Here's the deal...
Society tells you that In order to cope better emotionally, with life difficulties, you have to put all your efforts into improving the weaknesses in your nature.
So you try working damn hard, on your weaknesses.
You demolish any weakness in yourself which you can link to depression.
You bully yourself out of weaknesses that overload you with anxiety.
You try to weed out weakness that cause you to become stressed too easily.
But it just doesn’t work.
Now this is what I have found that works.
Instead of trying to demolish your weaknesses...
I have discovered that focusing more efforts on weakening specific strengths and positive habits in your nature will yield far better results for coping successfully with whatever life throws at you.
Sounds totally twisted right?
This is the mindset you must internalize in order to break out of the survival mode loop.
This is the crucial mind-set shift that will safeguard you from the nasty impact of your mental trap.
Still not convinced?
Professor E.Ron de Kloet (Academy professor of the Royal Netherlands Academy of Arts and Sciences) in his review article “stress and the brain: from adaptation to disease 2005,” explained that at the base level of this mental trap, stress hormones act as a switch that controls adaptive behaviour.
Kloet goes further suggesting that the more susceptible you are to the mental trap, the more likely you are to suffer stress-related brain diseases like depression, chronic anxiety, PTSD, social anxiety, agoraphobia, panic attacks, anger problems, etc.
Now the question is…
What determines if your stress hormones acts in your favor, or act against you?
To help answer this, look no further than the humble electric switch in your home.
What happens when you flip the light switch? Obviously the light bulb turns on.
But as we all know, flipping the switch causes current to flow through a wire leading directly from the switch to the bulb.
Now imagine if the wire leading to the bulb was all entangled with bare wires sticking out touching each other. The result of this would be sparks and blown fuses. And you end up with your house in flames.
What do blown fuses have to do with your mental trap?
According to Kloet, our process of adapting to stress in life, leads to a rewiring of our brain. And if this rewiring becomes an entangled mess, it causes automated biological responses and unwanted behavioural reactions. Responses like having a panic attack, becoming deeply distressed, experiencing deep low mood.
Now the question is...
What types of adaptive behaviour to stress in your life can lead to this bad rewiring of your brain?
What causes BAD BRAIN rewiring?
According to Dr Marsha Linehan, the pioneer of dialectical behavioral therapy...
Most life situations are full of paradoxes.
And as such any action taken to achieve good things can eventually result in bad outcomes. This is especially so if you are not aware of the need to keep everything you do in balance.
In essence, this just means that..
Doing too much of anything can cause you problems. No matter how good that thing is.
You see, as humans, we are prone to developing strategies to help us deal with life, protect ourselves from harm, and achieve success and enjoyment in our relationships and our careers.
Sadly, we take this to extremes without realizing it.
For example, Tamara has built up tenacity to keep pushing through tasks on her plate. She believes that this is important because not doing so would be lazy. And if she is lazy, she would be proving her mum right as mum always said she was lazy.
Whilst tenacity is a good strength to have, this led Tamara to work herself to the ground. Sadly, she could not help but interpret her exhaustion as laziness. Causing her to beat herself up badly.
This is how the bad wiring in our brain occurs.
The bottom line is this...
Your mental trap is the misfiring of your mental wires which have become entangled because of many positive coping behaviours you have become accustomed to.
This is how your strengths, your positive attributes and your functional coping strategies become the same things that overload you with negative emotions.
This is why you are not coping.
And to begin to cope better emotionally, you’ve got to figure out which strengths are sabotaging you so that you can tone your reliance on them down.
This is the only way to bring balance back into your life and stop your strengths from dumping you in your mental trap every single time.
Once you can understand how to balance your strengths and the positive habits that sabotage you both in the recovery mode and the survival mode, unshakable confidence and resilience will be things you'll always have.
Here's what Amelie, one of my former clients had to say about how balancing the use of her strengths enabled her start coping better emotionally.
Amelie had difficulty with anxiety based thoughts and had been using meditation as a coping measure for years.
And because the meditation was successful at helping her feel relieved whenever anxiety struck,
She relied on it more and more.
But she could not understand why her anxiety kept returning. Then gradually her anxiety got worse,she became claustrophobic,she began to avoid tubes, buses and busy places. Then she begun to have sleepless nights.
Our sessions highlighted that...
This contributed to her mental trap because her meditation tricked her into not addressing the core issues that would help stop her anxiety from being a problem.
We worked on toning her use of meditation down, and replaced this with effective problem solving skills. Read the feedback of her results below...
I've been feeling a lot more positive although I still have ups and downs. I still feel a little fragile inside occasionally. Now I am comfortable in my own skin. I no longer look behind when I am out and about. More often than not I now feel free and able to live again.
But I remember how bad I was feeling at the beginning and I couldn’t even sleep etc. I hope I'll never go back to that state of mind....
It was a bit difficult to accept and recognize but now I do understand how easy it is for the mind to find an hiding space in the meditation or religion etc..
That was the biggest realization
Because I have been meditating for almost 30 years and resolved many issues in my life with it. But never thought that somehow I used it as a coping mechanisms.
I needed your input to reshape the way I use the meditation and have a different approach to it.
I have been a lot more aware of not relying on the meditation to make decisions or to cope with stress.
Can you see that!
No one would think something as good a s meditation could actually promote anxiety problems.
But just so you don't think that was a fluke...
Here's what Christian, Another former client had to say about how balancing the use of his strengths enabled him to start coping better emotionally.
Christian, was tortured from his anxiety and depression on a daily basis. And had recently been signed off work because of this.
Read what he had to say...
"I’ve tried a lot of the things you’ve told me out. I’m giving it all a go…
And it’s been a bit weird because I didn’t think I’d get results.... Even though it makes sense, it still feels weird because it’s kind of like contradicting everything I've been told in the past...
At the start, I was confused, because I was like thinking how is this going to help me, but as each session has gone on, I felt it started to make more sense. And when I put into practice, it’s made even more sense as I saw the results happening...
I would have never have thought toning down your strengths and stuff like that would help me. And I do feel it’s made the difference. My mum’s noticed a difference as well. And I can see how the things we talked about has changed to me for the better."
This is the kind of result you can achieve from learning to tone your strengths down.
So Imagine this...
You’ve been stable emotionally for over 2 years. Achieving your dream of a life with no anxiety or depressive problems at all.
You’re starting to see that you can support yourself comfortably, financially, full-time, without depending on your parents or on government handouts.
You’ve finally beaten the self-doubt that held you back for so many years.
And although you still get bombarded with challenging situations, you have no worries that they’ll break you.
Because you now have practical systems in place to overcome your pressures, so everything is chugging along smoothly.
Does this sound like something you'd love to achieve?
Then you'll love what I have to offer...
Hi, I am Adewale Ademuyiwa...
And In the next 2 months, I would like to help you learn the necessary emotional skills to ensure you fully recover and never experience another breakdown ever again.
You see, It can be a lonely experience when you're in the depths of depression or battling a racing anxious mind.
As my client, you'll get eight one-hour sessions where I hold you by the hand and guide you step by step to learn all the necessary skills to cope emotionally.
Adewale is Accredited by British Association of Behavioural & Cognitive Psychotherapies.
Bsc Hons Community Specialist Practice, Post Grad Certificate in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dip He Mental Health Nursing, Diploma in Mentoring in Public practice,
Areas of Expertise:
Anxiety, Depression, Low self-esteem problems, Stress related difficulties, Social anxiety, Agoraphobia, PTSD, Childhood trauma, Generalizedanxiety, Anger management difficulties, Health axiety, OCD, Relationship difficulties, Bi-polar, Personality disorders... And much more!
The 8 sessions have been specially designed to go right to the hear of your mental trap. The sessions are full of simple practical and helpful advice given in no-nonsense terms, to make your life happier.
Together we dive deep into dissecting and understanding the structures holding your emotional health problems together. These are the individual elements contributing to your mental trap.
At the end of this session you will get the practical step-by-step plan you must follow in order to avoid relapsing again.
In session 2 and 3 we tackle the problems that keep you trapped with this background feeling that you have not fully recovered.
I will help you recognize the feelings you go through and give you a clear Idea of the exact steps to deal with these feelings successfully. This will help you avoid getting stagnated by your thoughts and feelings.
You see, in the recovery zone, it is common to get bombarded one or a combination of the following symptoms:
Energy problems, poor sleeping patterns, lack of motivation, intrusive negative thinking, Intense sadness, Moderate to high anxiety symptoms, Intense worrying, Increased paranoia, Increased, irritability, frustration and anger.
And once to know the step by step process to follow, it should be easy to break free of the recovery zone.
However, as I have said, there are mental traps within this zone as well.
So, I then Iron out any loop holes existing you your recovery strategy. I uncover anything you might be doing to unknowingly create mental traps that hijack your recovery process. Then I give you, tips, strategies, examples and exercises to help overcome these loopholes. This ensures that your foundation for recovery is robust which gives you the best chance of achieving a more fulfilling life.
Here is a testimonial from a former client who was struggling to break free from her recovery zone:
"I thought it was like the end of the world, I was so heavy I felt overloaded in my heart and in my brain and it was like I was stuck with everything. It was just too much.
I was holding onto too many worries, I couldn’t let anything go. I was scared that I’was going to die and leave my kids with no one to look after them. If not for my kids, I would have committed suicide.
Sometimes I’was crying without even knowing why I was crying I just got in bed and cried for the whole night.
Now and don’t feel overloaded any more. I feel quite calm.
I’m getting better with my thinking. No longer latching onto things I can’t control. I’m no longer worried. The way I used to cry for things I no longer do this. It feels like things are getting better than before and now I’m able to understand what is happening to me now than I did before.
When I started to come to see you Adewale, I didn’t know I would get to a point that I would even understand myself and know exactly what to do. Now it’s like I’ve taken off the load. I stopped carrying. I stopped blaming myself with things like I was doing before."
In Sessions 4 to 7 I help you uncover all the mistakes you are making that trigger your mental trap when you are well enough to get back into living your life.
In over 20 years of experience working in mental health services, I have come across over a hundred of these mistakes. However there are a core 32 mistakes that have been consistent. I call them "positive mistakes" because these 32 mistakes is that they are all caused by positive coping strategies.
And I can guarantee that if you regularly struggle with emotional health problems, you are definitely making of these mistakes.
But what's more frightening any one of these 32 mistakes is powerful enough to crush you emotionally Like I have described above.
So in session 4- 7 pick out which of the 32 positive mistakes you fall for then I walk you exactly how you can insulate yourself from the problems they create for you.
You'll discover the mental traps that trigger build-up of that horrible feeling of overwhelm.
You know that feeling you get when multiple things go wrong all at once, or
when you have to face impossible situations that plunge you into that
"I CANNOT WIN," or "I AM GOING TO FAIL" mindset.
You’ll learn how to counteract this mental trap. This will change your whole mindset and give you a fresh perspective on life. And this will enable to you keep yourself on an even balance.
Essentially, the strategies you'll learn will boost your trust in your own ability to
function successfully under pressure. So you don't run the risk of
breaking down crying unexpectedly in the most inconvenient places.
Just like what happened for another one of my client's.
Read what he had to say...
Testimonial from a former client who was a department store manager:
"After I got the promotion, I began to overthink everything. I knew I was always over exaggerating things, making a mountain out of a mole hill, but I could not stop myself.
I was massively frustrated with myself. Depressed because my wife had just had a baby and they were both relying on the money I was bringing in.
I Hoped the anxiety would go away. Holding back my emotions and fighting hard to stop myself from cracking. I couldn't stop thinking that I would get sacked if I couldn't pull myself together as my position at work is critical to the smooth running of the stores.
Now my anxiety is no longer non stop. I still do worry but it's no longer overpowering. I am able to put things in perspective.
Now I might get a little blip of emotions that last a few minutes, but it's no where as bad as it used to be, and it does not scare me anymore because i know what to do to feel better."
In session 8 the final session I will take you through the necessary steps to cement your recovery by helping you build a relapse prevention system that is entirely tailored to you. This way you will not be left with the fear that you might relapse again.
You will have no more fear because you will know exactly what to do to stop yourself from relapsing.
Working together, I will help you feel happy about yourself and your abilities, without the constant fear that something’s bound to go wrong and steal your joy.
Not only will this enable you to maintain stable emotions, It will also enable you to spend
more time doing things you enjoy with people you love.
And since you will no longer be worrying about avoiding anything that will stress you
out, your life will become less monotonous.
You'll develop an Increased sense of bravery to try new things and go to new places.
And this is because you will know how far you can push yourself.
This way you will never push yourself into another emotional breakdown.
But you'll know how to take on new challenges and necessary risks whilst at the
same time keeping yourself well.
You'll learn to stop feeling guilty and inadequate about tasks you have to give
up because they overload you.
This way you won't keep overdoing things or overworking yourself out of guilt. And this
will enable you to avoid relapsing back into negative cycles of anxiety
At the same time, knowing how much you can push yourself will put yourself in a better
place to be receptive to growth, improvement and opportunities.
Just read what Tessa, another one of my clients had to say.
Testimonial from a former client who was a starting out entrepreneur:
"I was not able to make any decisions and stick with it. I didn’t believe in my own thought processes for making decision not really knowing what I wanted from my life. Constantly doubting everything I did.
Was feeling very anxious and depressed. And I wasn’t really producing anything so I was in my head way too much second-guessing everything. Believing I was doing the wrong things. Overthinking things.
I’ve been looking at things a lot differently. And I’m starting to do what I actually want rather than just doing what other people want me to do. And I have pretty much managed to come off my tablets.
And I’ve pretty much started to feel confident in myself and working on my projects, already seeing some promising results. The thing that was a shocker to me was being able to stand up to my mum which is something I’ve never been able to do in my life, I did not cave to her demands and emotional manipulation.
Now, can you feel that?
Let me ask you, how much is it worth to you to never have to feel "debilitating anxiety or depression" again for the rest of your life?
How much is it worth to you to know that you will never have to disappoint your family, your friends, your employers again... all because you are coping better emotionally...?
How much is it worth to NEVER feel like you have to “deprive” yourself of fun or pass over opportunities because you are too anxious or depressed again?
Imagine that for a second…
Really let yourself feel what that would be like…
And then tell me…
What do you think would be a fair price to completely gain your life back from mental health problems and be able to control your mind and emotions successfully in just two months and with the absolute certainty that you will never have another relapse again?
If you’re being completely honest with yourself, I bet you’d say £5,000 or more would be totally fair. Because can you put a price on sanity? . To be able to enjoy your life and your home and SMILE so wide it makes your cheeks hurt every time you look in the mirror and feel a deep sense of contentment, peace, calmness which has lasted for years without fail.
(I bet you’d think that was cheap to never have to feel emotionally drained again for the rest of your life…)
I mean, £5,000 is a lot of money, but considering how this will change your life forever and finally get you off psychiatric medication for good so you are LIVING your life instead of beating yourself up for not being as “mentally sound" as you believe you “should” be…
Well, when you look at it that way it seems pretty cheap, doesn’t it?
But after 21 years working as a mental health practitioner and doing everything I can to SERVE my fellow man…
There’s one undeniable fact I’ve learned again and again…
That even when you want something so much and KNOW it’s a once-in-a-lifetime deal…
As a man or woman who’s spent so much of your life GIVING and GIVING to others…
Sometimes it feels impossible to be “selfish” and give yourself what you so desperately need…
Not a risk to you…
But a big risk to me…
See, my mission in life for as long as I can remember has been to SERVE and HELP people…
That’s why I became a mental health nurse so many years ago…
That’s why I spent months and YEARS doing everything I could to help people…
And if I have to take a hit to my wallet to help YOU?
Well, that’s a price I’m extremely happy to pay…
So here’s what I’m going to do…
We’ve already agreed that the 8 emotional resilience building sessions is worth at least £5,000…
But, because you’ve read this article and given me some of your precious time…
I’m not going to ask you to invest £5,000…
I’m not even going to ask you to pay £2,000 (even though I know you’ll agree that would be a steal)…
No, for you (and for now) I’m going to do something a little bit “CRAZY”…
For the next three days, I’m going to set YOUR PRICE for “The 8 emotional resilience building sessions” at just 8 payment of £125... (Making a total £1000)
And that's not all...
If you act today, I will give you the first session at a FULLY REFUNDABLE... ALL TIME LOW COST OF £10.
Because I believe it is only fair to give you a taster session. This will give you the opportunity to see if you can work with me. This will also give me an opportunity to see if I would like to work with you.
The first session is 1 hour session where I help you design a personal plan for coping better emotionally. So that you feel internally vibrant and robust to withstand your pressure. So you never feel inadequate and weak in your life ever again.
So, even if you only attend this one session, you can still take your resilience building plan with you and use at your leisure...
Entirely for free.
If at the end of the first session, you decide that you don't want to work with me, I will give you your £10 back...
I will give you your resilience building plan with the step by step instructions on how to make this plan successful for you.
Now you might be wondering...
" Will this resilience building plan be useful for me? How much value can I really get from just 1 hour session?"
Rather than me just blabbing away to sell the merits of how 1 hour with me will benefit you...
Listen to what Sandra one of my former clients had to say about this resilience building planning session.
This is the type of result you too can get from the first session with me.
And if you act Right NOW, you will not only get this first session for just £10. I’ll take money out of my own pocket and give you the whopping 60% Off…
And all you have to pay today for the emotional resilience building session with me is a severely discounted price of...
(Immediate action discount)
That’s the good news…
The bad news is to “lock in” your discount you have to act right now.
Well, I’m actually in a bit of a “debate” with my amazing (and extremely protective) wife right now…
Uche tells me that I’m being a “bleeding heart” by setting the price so low and that £10 is just WAY too cheap…
And that to fulfill my mission to help as many struggling folks as possible I may need to raise or even double the price…
If you’re still seeing this article, it means we’re still testing to find out if we can “make the numbers work” with your incredible discount…
But please, if you come back in a few hours or tomorrow and the price is higher (maybe, MUCH higher)…
Please, don’t write me begging… If you pass up your one chance to “lock in” your discount now, there’s simply nothing I can do for you.
Oh, and just to take away every excuse your brain can come up with not to do this for yourself.
I’ve got a sparkling 100% money back guarantee for you…
If for any reason you are dissatisfied, just send me an email within 90 days from your first one to one session with me, and I’ll give you an immediate 100% refund.
You don’t have to explain why you want out or give me any justification whatsoever. You can just drop the program and we’ll refund 100% of your payment…
And I’ll wish you the best of luck, no hard feelings at all.
Now, you might ask why exactly am I being so generous?
That’s a very good question…
And I’ve got two answers for you…
The first is kind of selfish…
After putting so much time and effort into creating this program and seeing how it has CHANGED my life and the life of my clients, I want as many people as possible to use it to create the emotional stability you want and deserve so much…
The second answer is maybe a little “sappy” I guess…
It’s because I want this for you…
I want you to experience what it’s like to look in the mirror AND Be happy and contented with yourself and your life…
To feel confident that you can cope and feel so much more in control with a clear path ahead of you.
To actually get EXCITED life because you can actually enjoy things without the fear that you might crumble under any unexpected pressure.
And if I have to put myself out there a bit to help you? I’ll gladly do just that…
And all you have to do is click the button right below now…
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One, a lifetime of energy and hope and passion for life, where you LOVE your self and are amazed at how you are loving every single moment of life.
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I think you already know what will happen if you do this because you’ve felt it so many times before…
That feeling of hopelessness…
Of being trapped in your unhealthy mind...
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Tired of YEARNING to know what it’s like to have power and control and ENERGY like you did when you were a kid…
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And before we go…
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Again, I’m Adewale Ademuyiwa and I’m incredibly excited for you to experience what happens when you apply these emotional resilience building strategies in your life…
I can’t wait to hear about your success.
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